WHAT DO GIRLS REALLY WANT? (PART2)

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Heyo People,

Am back again with more. So let me school you on the concept of FLAMES

F FRIEND

    Every girl needs a friend and wants her guy to be her friend, that person you can talk to and just be yourself not someone that makes you uncomfortable and won't make you what your not. Just that guy that you can be like “hey stupid I totally hate your hair cut”, just know this one thing, when a girl starts insulting you frequently you got a spot in her heart.

L-LOVE

      Every girl wants to be loved like real love, someone you can really call your own and look up to when no other person is there. We are like die hard romantic creatures, everyone knows that we literally feed on love and attention, its how we are wired. So, if you got the love just shower it on your girl it truly won’t hurt.

A-ATTENTION

  This is my favorite part. Tell me a girl that doesn’t love attention and I’ll say she is totally a dude, like check her. The calls , messages , compliments even a good amount of jealous acts won’t hurt, it just keeps us in place and reminds us that someone cares and someone is scared to lose us . If you’re the funny type, take time to make her laugh, if you’re the romantic type, that early morning text message won’t hurt( not WhatsApp text please) just shows that you woke up thinking about her or at least that’s what we think #lol. Like look at Kim and Kanye, Kanye actually left a concert because Kim called like that was super cute. Haters gonna be like that was a publicity stunt but we really don’t care, all we know is that "he left” and it was for “her”. A Popular proverb says: “show a girl attention and she would love you forever” (okay that’s a lie I just formed that) but you get the message. So one message for the guys, if your girl isn’t bothered you’re not giving her attention then she really isn’t that into you. Guys you can take a bold step today seriously. A surprise outing or a nice gift won’t hurt like seriously am even going far sef  what about ordinary recharge card, annoying ass guys would say “am I the one that father you?” if you’re out there  and under this category am happy to tell you you’re under the “FUCK BOY COMMUNITY” welcome to the club(not like am in the club but you know what I mean). Am sure I speak the minds of my girls.

M-money

  Am particularly interested in this particular letter “M-money” the truth is that not all girls are psyched about this, this can be seen in different aspects some girls say they can’t date or get involved with a guy who isn’t well established, others say if there’s potential then their fine as far as the guy is working towards a particular goal. Well , the main thing about this option is that a girl would never want a guy without an ambition , seriously guys you need a  focus at least let it be known that you tried. Nobody wants a lazy ass man sitting around hoping for money , in fact scratch that a lazy ass “BOY”. it’s like it’s a new trend now for guys to be looking for rich girls I don’t know how true and regular this is but I’ve heard a lot about it of recent and am sure others have heard of it too. Well guys just try spending on your girl it doesn’t matter how little you have but let it be known you tried.

E-extra

 There just one thing to say here and its we always want extra , extra love , extra attention , extra care we want to be the number 1 it’s never going to change so get used to it. So this is more like a backup like an overflow of everything , some guys get embarrassed because of this like their guys are all “this one na woman”  and they start giving you feminine names like “gladis” but this only shows ones level of immaturity, a guy whose ready to give his girl extra is a smart guy,  like seriously your supposed to make a difference what distinguishes you from other guys, it’s not something to feel embarrassed about in fact those guys act that way because they don’t have the opportunity to have what you’ve got.

S-security /safety

Who doesn’t want a guy that is ready to guard and protect her she wants a king, a warrior, a protector, even if you know he isn’t that strong but you know that he’ll give it his all just to protect you and make you feel safe. Sometimes guys joke about some stuff like “ahh if a snake comes around babe I’ll leave you" it may seem funny the first time, then something comes up like that again and a third time and you’re like seriously dude the joke's getting old. You may not mean it but we need that assurance am sure you’ve heard this saying “be careful what you tell a girl coz she'll never forget , I mean never ever bro”.

    So much has been said I even feel too serious at the moment well there’s still lots more to talk about, hope you enjoyed this, and a very big thank you to my friend Somto Nnaji for her help on this article .please leave comments and fell free to drop questions I’ll be pleased to answer….. bye.