WHAT GIRLS DONT WANT (10 THINGS GIRLS DON’T LIKE IN GUYS)

What girls don’t want (10 THINGS GIRLS DON’T LIKE IN GUYS)

      Hey guys its been a while , sorry I couldn’t post been so busy. So We’ve talked so much about what girls want, so now it’s time to talk about what girls don’t want.
So there are so many things guys do and they think it’s cute and okay but it’s totally not(trust me), so here are the few things I’ve found out.

 10 THINGS GIRLS DON’T LIKE IN GUYS

1. PROUD GUYS{ we seriously don’t want to know about all your achievements and how much your wristwatch or phone costs it’s really not our business .also to guys who can’t say sorry or apologies because they “think” they’re too “good” or “cute” for that sincerely I have no words for you. Show off can be cool at the beginning and by that we mean letting her know you can attend to her needs but please be moderate with that shit}

2. GUYS WITH BAD MANNERS/ GUYS THAT LACK COURTESY {for instance guys that talk too much, like “can you shutup?” let me say a few words, like a conversation is between two people and not one sided. So based on courtesy seriously their just little things that you do that girls take to heart, simply seeing 

her off after a visit  to get a cab or taking care of her transport, calling her to make sure she’s home safely, opening doors and all those stuff, like go an extra mile to find out the right things to do and how to do it.

      So for bad manners the first thing I have to say is please mind what you say like you can just say anything that pops into your mind get a filter “biko”. Also guys who scold or shout at their girls in public like I can literally kill you for this, worse of all those that beat their girls ,word for you guys out there you’re not a man maybe you can go and be a cattle rearer at least you can shout and flog your cattle}

3. CHILDISH GUYS {just a little bit on this, waiting for your girl to text first to test her love don’t make no sense, or waiting for her to text first because you were the last to text the night before makes no sense either, or waiting for your girl to apologize whenever you have any little quarrel makes no sense either .. word.}

4. DIRTY AND UNKEPT GUYS{to all the guys out there that still sag “grow up” or those who think not combing their hair is cute ,news flash “it’s not”}

5. IRRESPONSIBLE GUYS {this can be financially, health wise, being lazy, am sure you get what irresponsible means.}

6. BORING GUYS {this is like a big reason for a breakup, tho it sounds funny or “childish” its true. This shouldn’t be restricted to any sex tho but as a guy it’s kinda your duty to keep things lively and fun filled. Make out time for fun dates and interesting activities coz when she’s bored she starts to notice “mike from next door” that is “funny” and has been “asking her out” and before you know it she’s all into him. Some guys may  say they’re not the outdoor type  but relationships are about ‘compromising ’you can’t just keep doing everything indoors she’d think you’re not proud of showing her off and then “mike from next door” tells her how he can’t wait to show her off to his friends and all that’s goodbye to you my brother.

7. SELF CENTERED GUYS {it isn’t always all about you, you should try to be a good listener and ask your girl how her day was as well, the world doesn’t revolve AROUND YOU, but well if you love yourself so much you can as well date yourself}

8. greedy guys {IF YOU WANT TO BE GREEDY THEN GET READY TO BE SINGLE FOREVER #lol I know this sounds harsh but it’s true like what do I need a greedy guy for, you must not have much before you give very little things matter and go a long way ,you don’t have to buy her a Ferrari (if you have the money no wahala )but if you don’t there’s always something you can get for her within your range that would show you care for her }

9. GUYS THAT COMPARE AND TRY TO MAKE YOU SOMEONE ELSE {NEVER DO THIS NEVER EVER. Am not her and she’s not me, it’s a completely different thing if you see something you like and you want your girl to try it, rather  than telling your girl “can’t you see Brenda’s hair why can’t you do something like that” but since you like Brenda so much maybe you can go and date her (if she accepts you)}

10. GUYS THAT LACK CONFIDENCE {this affects how you think and act, how you feel about yourself and others. No girl would look up to you if you lack confidence in yourself. Its more like she has nothing to look up to you for and that’s just sad . confidence goes a long way coz sometimes when your girl feels a bit shy and out of place you should be there to tell her there’s nothing to fear I have your back and not like “am shy too lets get out of here we can’t do this”}

          A few other answers were guys that are too blunt, guys that are too jealous(a little bit of jealousy can be cute but when it gets too much it’s a no no).

                   You girls may have other ideas you can chip in leave your comments and tell me how you feel.much thanks to my friends somie and mimi. We have finally come to the end of the girl talk. Next  up WHAT DO GUYS REALLY WANT? #winks….bye.